You could ask the pastor at a local church or your doctor for the names and phone numbers of places that are set up to help unwed mothers. Please find out from a lawyer what it means for you legally in your state if you sign the birth certificate.Some places also understand that unwed fathers also need support. (Usually it means that you are obligated to pay child support until the child grows up.) Think about asking for a paternity test when the baby is born to settle the question of whether you are the father.So a few weeks go by and we are still broken up but she comes to college and we have sex some more in January then we learn that she is pregnant.The catch is the she showed me a thing on Facebook and I went through her messages and found out that when she told me that this tattoo guy messaged her trying to flirt with her she ignored her but they actually flirted big time.
I think that the baby she is carrying might not be mine because of a lot of different circumstances.I know it's hard but I think it's better to leave things as they are now. the baby will turn 2 next september, so I think He won't even remember me.I think I've made a tough decision but in the end I think it's the best for all... I would leave her for all the reasons everyone else mentioned, and also for this. As the kid grows, she will constantly be reminded of how much the child is his, because as the child gets older he will resemble his parents more and more.Everytime she looks at her baby, she won't see you. This will affect you greatly because, unlike people who marry with step children, this child is the result of an infidelity.We broke up cause we argued a lot but we promised each other to be faithful and work it out.